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When we go through a major life change—like a divorce—we’re suddenly pushed to confront things we may have been able to ignore for years. As a couple or a family unit, responsibilities and liabilities often blend together. We create systems, debts, and commitments as a team, even if we never felt fully comfortable addressing them at the time. But once the relationship ends, everything becomes visible and personal. What was once ours  becomes mine , and liabilities that felt m

Whilst today is Halloween and the supermarket aisles are filled with people buying candies and costumes, I found myself wondering — where does Halloween really come from? That small curiosity led me to two realisations: 1.  We often do things without really knowing why  we do them. 2.  And in the same way, when we’re going through a separation or divorce, we can lose touch with why  we made certain choices in the first place — including why we got married. So many of our dail

In moments of life’s challenges — such as divorce or separation — our emotional and mental state often becomes filled with doubt and a lack of faith.Faith is the quiet virtue that keeps us moving forward. It allows us to trust our actions and believe that life has meaning, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. During times of deep distress, holding onto faith and trust can feel like swimming against a strong current of emotional turmoil. Yet, if we look at the natural or

When life throws us into stress and change, it can feel like we’re stuck in a muddle of emotions. It’s a bit like pulling out a necklace...